New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[nutts]

In fact stop leading and 'trying', this is driving your WW away in my opinion.

Concentrate on you and healing you. There is enough to do on this.

I guess when I said "I'll try", I didn't mean I'd be actively doing anything; in this case try meant, I'm going to continue down my current path (which is more in line with sandi's rules right now), see how things progress. Maybe I'll throw in something GB suggested, see what that does.

Frankly I would like to read your action plan and goals for developing you and healing your stuff.

I suppose the actions I'm taking are trying to get out more with my friends, do more things with my S alone, increasing my exercising, eating right, while following sandi's rules.

As for goals, I just read the DR section on this, and I was kind of confused. The goals she stated had more to do with reactions from my W, what I wanted to see from her, but I didn't really get that. I guess my only real goal is to GAL and see what happens.

Can you describe what sort of goals you think I should be setting now? Any help is appreciated.

Thanks.