The one important thing is to do that which works.

Outing the OW that I outed didn't help at all, I wished I hadn't as there was significant ranting and damage. That was in my sitch and I support MrBond in this.

In fact stop leading and 'trying', this is driving your WW away in my opinion.

Concentrate on you and healing you. There is enough to do on this.

Frankly I would like to read your action plan and goals for developing you and healing your stuff.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW