While I agree with some of the points made, I would take GB's suggestions with a grain of salt. Especially the distract them and sticking to the WAS part if their A has ended. I've seen time and time again on here that it just irritates them more. I know in my situation, it definitely didn't help until I backed off and let her think. that's when she came back.
You're going to have to take these suggestions, and yes these are only suggestions and see what works best in your situation. It'll take a little while, but you'll get the hang of it.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.