So I just came across this site and the rules. A little late. W told me about a week ago that she wanted to leave, that she was absolutely certain that we didn't have a future due to damage from our interaction. That despite all the good and recent improvement, she didn't want to work on it and just wanted out. She hasn't really been talking about it much since, unless I bring it up. Which I do. She has been hot and cold: intimate, loving, distant, angry. I've been talking a lot about how this doesn't make any sense given how things have gotten better. This morning, I woke up and told her that her sharing my bed and the resulting intimacy is confusing, that shouldn't she sleep somewhere else if she wants to leave? And that if she really wants to go through with this, which I think is a huge mistake, shouldn't she move out? She agreed. I realize how many rules I have broken. She is coming home tonight. What should I do? Have I gone too far for these rules?
