Her MLC: The Battle I Didn't Choose

[ericmsant2]

Bru
I get the whole protect assets thing. Before you continue to move money around, you may want to check up on what the laws are in your state. In CT, where I live, once a “motion” is filed, everything must remain where it is. Any purchases (exculding the norms, bills, food, etc.) will be scruitinized. So just be careful. I do suggest that you prepare a budget, which leaves BOTH of you with equal disposable income.

I don't know what else to do. "Hang on" and "Keep busy" are all I can think of. I said I don't know if I'm supposed to put a good foot forward. You said I already know the answer. I don't yet.

1) Believe it or not…sometimes doing NOTHING is doing something.
2) Have you really spent time understanding your issues?
3) Have you really spent time trying to figure out WHO (at your core) you want to be?
4) Want something to do? Write down 10 goals for yourself that can be achieved in the next 3 – 6 months. Post them.

I've spent all of 2016 watching her in the tunnel

So your still a newbie…. MLC, should you try and outlast it….takes a LONG time.

For better or for worse – this is the worse part. Anyone can do the better.
In sickness and in health – this is the sickness part. You up for it?

I just don't want everything to work out the way she thinks it's supposed to. I don't want her warped MLC logic to be validated by success.

You know what I see up there ^^^^^^ a scared and angry man that is trying to control the sitch. If I can see it….so can she. How do you think you can change this?