Eating Life with a Big Spoon

[AndrewP]

HaWho - I think he's trying to build a man out of straw - or a house if you like the 3 little pigs story.

It's not substantial and he may even know it. My thought is to let it blow over. I don't expect that even if the words go into his ears that he'll listen and it will give him more straws to add.

There's an interesting article that I read pre-BD - not sure if it was after W's A started or not. I was very excited about it and had W read it. Shortly after that she started squirreling away money as well. Google (adjusting spelling) "fvck off fund" - which talks about the importance of having your own money and being independent even when in a relationship. I doubt if showing it to H would have any impact but it might make you feel better.