My husband has gotten himself into a situation that he says he can't handle. Maybe he can and maybe he can't, only time will tell, and maybe if he can he still will never be as happy if he hadn't gotten into it. But that's part of growing up and they are like children now. People need to make mistakes, own the consequences of their actions. And if it turns out really horribly, do you really want to have been the one in control of it? Of course not. At least you will be able to say, you chose this.
