I feel for you surfer. What you want with respect to custody and holidays is more than reasonable. I made it clear to my ww that if we s or d, I'd want the same and also that there would be no "family" trips because she wouldn't be my family.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om