Sometimes I wonder if I am a covert narcissist. I recognize I am mad at husband for daring to leave me...he had every right I guess.
Ginger, I am pretty sure husband liked me for superficial stuff. Like, I looked good on paper. Why not marry. It had been 7 years and no real reason to separate.
You voiced my feelings regarding men and relationships. I was and am kind of coming out of that belief that men want tons of space, and they want to avoid marriage and relationships at all costs. That women are the ones that force that type of arrangement on men and they get "suckered in". The guy I am dating really seems to want all the relationship stuff more then anything else. I think maybe he was lonely. It throws me off because I keep thinking "he's only like this because it's the beginning. He will be similar to my husband".
