DB (or what I think it is if you are LBS) is taking back control of you and your emotions. It's as simple that.
Boundaries - control (I won't accept certain that behaviour) Detachment - control (No thanks I don't ride this Rollercoaster) GAL - control (I am going to control my own happiness) Etc
Just thoughts.
Surfer.
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