The pendulum swings again. If your h wants to file, he will have to wait at least 6 months? Remember you have the gift of time.
Is he feeling overwhelmed by the responsibilities of the family? Is there a way to outsource chores and perhaps have kore babysitting so that you will have more couple time?
Sara. Agree with firm (but gentle) boundaries. And this is where I will differ from SH.
A consequence I can think of that is appropriate for the situation is to remove yourself from the conversation civilly.
Perhaps you can talk to your coach about the latest development.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
