I know how much it hurts..and there is nothing we can do except go through it take care of yourself..you will be ok
If your H is anything like mine, he will look in many ways for happiness ,but will not be able to find it He may get worse b4 he gets better
They are looking in the wrong direction and going back in time to redo what can't be redone-their adolescence
They can't move forward while going backwards, and it can't be stopped
WE on the other hand can move forward with every tear, every post, every therapy session-we move forward..one day it all passes and we can look back even grateful
there are no mistakes-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow