So for a lot of the WAS, it is not really a cold room. They get to be irresponsible and we kid ourselves by saying that they are the ones that are losing out. That's just our desire for fairy tale endings. The world is full of inequities and unfairness. Usually its the ones that are nicer, etc. that get f'd. and thats all this was. My husband was more ruthless.
My husband is convinced he did what was for the best. He has no guilt. My husband also thinks he is a great dad. That he is out there providing for his son....he told the mediator that he is giving me way too much in child support..17% and i should be able to take out of that and save for college. (His child support check would not even cover half of the rent for a 2 bedroom apartment here)
Sorry for rants today....I just talked to my lawyer and im mad.
