The problem is its a matter of interpretation. My husband will swear on a stack of bibles that he tried for years. I dont feel like he did. Not at all.
I was not the best person, but my behaviors did not warrant divorce. He was not the best partner. But I would have never left him based on his behaviors (i only would have left him if he cheated).
My husband never gave us a chance. We were living with my family. To really work on a marriage that was falling apart , we needed to leave my families home for privacy. Husband refused because it put him in a great financial position to walk away without obligation. He really took advantage of my parents and I want him to pay...but he will not have to. My parents certainly will not make us leave, but even if i worked full time, i cannot afford the area and I am stuck here unless hubby leaves.
He could not do better, the SOB. I wish he would freeze his ass off, but He is not in a cold room. He is in a paradise, with no responsibilities. Guilt free, because all his friends are divorced and he blames it on me.
I am so mad. I have been so mad. Hopefully once we are through with the legal process, I will not be mad anymore. I feel like he gets away so easy financially and logistically. I love my son more then anything and I am so grateful that husband does not want 50/50 or has a right to it anymore. But it is not easy to work full time, and have a child basically full time, and live in the most expensive area of the country.
He comes across so friggen clean cut. You would never know the truth if you met him and that enrages me as well.
