Try to remember that any relationship you have w/your xh now is going to be a new one. The old relationship/marriage are gone/dead. This is going to be new territory for the both of you because you both have changed a lot in the last year or so.
Take it one step at a time and try to keep those expectations very, very low for now.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
