Oh, and that was in reply to your sentence about leaving... which was a small part of your post but just stood out to me.

I'm also happier now in many, many ways. I feel free to be myself.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17