The thing ab the A is right now WAW and BF are blaming all of their problems on me and his ex.
Yeah. It's a heck of a lot easier to blame your problems on someone else than to look inwards.
Originally Posted By: Sad_Dad
It seems like it's pushing them together.
For now, probably. So how does causing more grief to your W help with that?
Originally Posted By: Sad_Dad
If/when does that stop?
Unfortunately, the best answer I can give you is "when it stops".
Basically, my best advice is to back as far off from W as possible. That will give her nothing to complain about. Whats she going to say to OM: "Ugh. My H isnt speaking to me right now. Why doesnt he want to do more stuff with me?"
Originally Posted By: Sad_Dad
I know I need to focus more on me right now but it's hard with all of this going on right under my nose.
Of course it's hard. Its not easy to take your focus off the person thats been the center of your life for many years. But thats wht you need to do. Make yourself and your kids the center of your life.
