Hey. I just caught up on your story and I am sorry to find you here.

As far as the blaming... there's nothing you can do about it. My XW blames me for everything that could possibly be going wrong in her life whether I'm the problem or not. It used to just grate on my soul.

The thing that helped me is really looking within myself and identifying the things I was to blame for. EX: I wasn't emotionally available enough, etc. And accept blame for those things and those things only and then WORK ON THEM. Not for her but for me. And I learned to ignore all the other crap she tried to blame on me, let it roll right off my back.

You're getting some great advice here. Keep at it. Focus on you. GAL, meet some new people, find new hobbies.

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16