Nothing new over here. I meet with someone yesterday who is very interested in renting one of the rooms in my house. She's close to the same age as me and is also recently divorced. We meet yesterday at lunch time, I believe later she's going to come check the place out and then fingers crossed likes it.
From speaking with her on the phone and yesterday seems like we have a good amount in common and expect the same things from a roommate situation so I'm sure it will be fine. And if it isn't...I'll kick her out. That's the nicest part about this being my house... no one gets to stay if I don't want them too.
Went over the FA's house again last night for dinner. Sometimes she scares me when she cooks because she just throws stuff together and makes comments like "oh that was strong" but when I ask her what she just gives me a look... I'm like her test animal for her learning how to cook new foods.... which is totally fine with me because 1) free food that I don't have to cook and 2) I LOVE FOOD! We also watched Hallmark movies and then I headed home around 11.
My IC yesterday said that because of my personality type and because of who I am as a person I am good at feeling distress and then saying "well there's nothing I can do about it, time to move forward." and letting it go.... Which is 98% of the time what happens. She said it's served me well and is likely the reason that I'm still going today but now she wants me to learn to identify my emotions better... Not sure how I feel about that. That's never been a space I'm comfortable in. I excel at rationalizing and logic and things that have scientific evidence and such...not emotions. So we will see how that goes for the next week.
Getting super excited about going to Florida next month! FH and I keep talking about all the things we plan on doing and seeing while I'm down there visiting her and I just get more and more excited. Still trying to firm up some spring break plans for ourselves. Might see when FA's daughters sb is and see if she wants to come with us.
W:32 M:26 T:5 yrs M: 3 yr BD: JUN 2016 W Moved out: early JUL 2016 W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016 EA: 06/16? PA: 07/16 Moved in w/ ow: 07/16 D final: 10/16
