Bulldog thanks for the advice. I'm very confident the A is over, and OMs side has stopped harassing my W. and, while I'm hoping for the best, I still understand D is very possible and I don't have any expectation, except that I expect to be a better man after all this.

I got DR and I started it last night. I'll be reading it as much as I can.

Thanks again.

M 40 W 40
S 2.5
Together 13 years
Married 11 years
BD: 09/23/16
PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16
Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16
A ended 10/10/16