tonight was ok. came home, ate dinner with S while W took a shower. played with S watch peppa pig, and gave him over to W for her to bathe and put to bed.
afterwards, W came down, and we watched 2 shows together. not much talk really, although I did ask if she's still getting harassed from OMs side, she said no, I said u can block them all if u neeed, but she's pretty sure it's over.
afterwards, we went upstairs, she dried her hair in our bathroom while I was watching game tv. when she left, we said good night, and that was it.
no mention of looking at finances, or moving out or anything negative, so that's good I guess. and she didn't do any more work on the house either while at home all day.
A good friend do of mine, whom I confided in actually spoke to my W about us. his wife was WW and had 6 month long gone affair, while my buddy sacked it up. the difference is, his W didn't want to to break up the family. they're back together now. Anyway, he told her to take things slow, and told her his story.
I did tell know bout this until later, and I was pissed at 1st, he shouldve told me he was going to talk to her. afterwards, I think it may have done some good. he told me to just be cool, dont beg, etc. well see if guess.
good night DB family.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
