((((Phoebe)))), this is horrid and so unfair. I'm so very sorry you had to read that.

It's good that you have had time to recover since the BD and establish a support system for yourself. You have friends, a personal advisor, and professionals who know your story and can support you.

I think you will weather this.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17