JRuss, we were only in MC for two sessions, and I didn't mention any issues with my H. It was all about his issues with me.

I felt his complaints and issues were much more significant than mine, and when I was faced with losing him, mine didn't seem so important.

However, I found that over time, with me consistently working on 180s, he started his own 180s. Just because you don't think she's ready to take responsibility now doesn't mean she won't be willing to change later.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16