I was told last night and again today that she is filing this week. She asked if I wanted to do a collaborative divorce. Is that like a s&$@ pie?
Filing and it being "over" are two separate things. I am sorry to hear that she mentioned filing to you. I know just how much of a punch in the gut it feels like. As for collaborative, you may want to consider that as it will save both of YOU money and it tends to be a bit less adversarial.
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We have a set schedule for the kids, however, she's Been very "busy with work" lately (aka lying). I love the kids and want them all the time so I never turn her down. I've been keeping track just in case she decides to go aggro during divorce proceedings.
Enjoy those kids! Just be careful not to loose yourself in trying to become super dad. As for the journaling your time with them...good idea.
Keep up the GALing! It does wonders for the soul.
As for things you need to work on...I get everyone has something. I wanted to know what YOURS were.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
