Mules -- I was just thinking the exact same thing. Even if (big if) the MC can get at least one of my W's feet back into the marriage in any way, we'll eventually have to get around to talking about some of the many ways she has contributed to us being here in addition to my contributions. That's not a message she's remotely prepared to hear at this moment, so, hopefully the MC will have a good sense of how to manage that. I appreciate you dropping by very much. I will be prepared.

lt-- here's hoping. I've been AWOL lately and need to catch up on your sitch. I hope you're finding some peace -- I know how tortuous the in-home thing is.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)