Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 5)

[JRuss]

That's a great blast of perspective, FG. Thank you. I found myself thinking as my W unloaded "Why on earth were you unwilling to come here for 2+ years", because we lost so much time and so many things have happened that might not have, but I guess the two of us are each on our own journey, and both journeys have their own unique pacing.