I know that we've discussed this before but...why not just be friends? Be friends w/o expectations for now. You and your xh started out as friends and as time went on, you became close and fell in love. You can recreate this friendship and allow it to grow at its own pace...again, no expectations.
Think about it because I know you would like to give the relationship another shot and this just might be the way to do so.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
