Gump -- I appreciate the kind words. I'm not sure envy is the right emotion to be feeling given how beat up I'm feeling right now, and, as I said, there wasn't anything in any of it where my W truly came off her position that the marriage should end, but I'm definitely aware that my sitch isn't nearly as bad as what so many people here are going through.

I do think that this MC is about as good as we're going to find in our city, so we're at least in the right place in terms of maximizing any chance.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)