My thoughts are this is part of your life story. Once you incorporate this into your story in a way that is honest and straightforward I believe it will no longer be anything but part of your story. Hurtfull but no longer hidden. Would I name her, yes, they already know anyway.

For WH this is his second A.

You have zero to be ashamed or frightened of. Head up, straight talk withouto embellishment.

Need to know and factual. The truth will set you free.

Cherry I can not tell you how ashamed I felt, how hurt, disgusted and cringing it was.

Now, I just say it as it is, the truth with names if need be. The Giggalo is the dirty dog.

I was once M to a philanderer with multiple OW and now I am free.

It is part of my story. Who is the fool? Me or The Giggalo?

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW