Bulldog is wrong. First of all "Sandi's Rules" are not literally Sandi's rules. Someone had posted this information out from DB and she just reposted. GB often just centers around the A and is not inline with MWD.
All of the drama between your W and the OM was honestly caused by you. Your initial reason was to have the A stopped. Well now it has a number of strangers attacking your W. The A isn't your fault, but the unwanted consequences of your actions are. Right now in all of your actions, I've just read about you attacking the A but not dealing what caused the root problems of it.
You said early on that your W's reasons for being unhappy was the lack of sex and your inattentiveness. You said that you had "dealt" with it before. How?
Eventually you're going to have to establish a friendship with your W if you want to get back together. If you were in her shoes, why would she want to do that?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
