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Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2708478 10/05/16 03:49 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla OP Member
OP Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	Has anyone else noticed the changend in font size? Or is it change in font? Makes quoted posts rather odd....... V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2708917 10/07/16 05:18 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla OP Member
OP Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	Aged pa is at the big house and I am taking him as my plus one to a friends wedding party. He has come with his best suit and a present for them. And ready to chat to lots of guests. The little red car is serviced and valeted, so we are in the convertible. It's going to be Fun! V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2709012 10/08/16 09:00 AM
Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 166 job Member
job Member Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 166	Vanilla, I'm so glad your pa is there and is going to a friend's wedding w/you. I'm sure he's looking forward to chatting w/guests. I do hope that you have a good time too. Enjoy! Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 job #2709602 10/12/16 04:00 AM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla OP Member
OP Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	Today in 2013 I was the happiest I had ever been. Getting M to someone I loved who I thought loved me. Today three years later, I feel nothing at all, I am indifferent. Abused, controlled, robbed and NC. The Giggalo is just a destroyer, a terminator. I am like whatever. V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2709611 10/12/16 04:57 AM
Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 1,732 S SH_ Member
SH_ Member S Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 1,732	My sweet dear beautiful Vanilla... You are an Angel... Angels live among us, Sometimes they hide their wings, bur there is no disguising the peace and hope they bring. Unknown You are beautiful... �The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassions, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.�-Elizabeth Kubler-Ross You will be happy...just keep going... Happiness is a direction, not a place. -Sydney J. Harris Rainbow hugs...Eskimo kisses...Peaceful vibes...Warrior support...Strength of the persistent survivor...dear friend... all being sent to my dear sweet Guardian Angel. Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017 It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 SH_ #2709612 10/12/16 05:01 AM
Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156 G Ginger1 Member
Ginger1 Member G Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 6,826 Likes: 156	......and you are a warrior.

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Ginger1 #2709693 10/12/16 12:11 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla OP Member
OP Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	What lovely generous words Thank you SH and ginger. A warrior angel, I really find great comfort in that description. V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2709696 10/12/16 12:14 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla OP Member
OP Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	Oh and aged pa is happy. He told me so today, he is lonely, but he he feels happy that he can be. Just be. I am taking him shopping for a new mobile phone on Saturday. His mobile is an analogue one. He likes his room and his new dressing gown. And he likes to hold my hand a lot. V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 Vanilla #2709727 10/12/16 01:24 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 3,401 Likes: 111 D Dawn70 Member
Dawn70 Member D Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 3,401 Likes: 111	Lady V, I know exactly what you mean when you say you feel nothing. I'm glad I feel that way because I really THOUGHT XH loved me, but I don't know anymore and I feel nothing. So glad to hear your pa is well and is happy "being". That is so wonderful. Enjoy your time with him and focus on you. Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids

Re: Just a Vanilla Change 33 SH_ #2710188 10/15/16 06:06 AM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 589 M mustardseed Member
mustardseed Member M Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 589	Originally Posted By: SH_ My sweet dear beautiful Vanilla... You are an Angel... Angels live among us, Sometimes they hide their wings, bur there is no disguising the peace and hope they bring. Unknown You are beautiful... �The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassions, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.�-Elizabeth Kubler-Ross You will be happy...just keep going... Happiness is a direction, not a place. -Sydney J. Harris Rainbow hugs...Eskimo kisses...Peaceful vibes...Warrior support...Strength of the persistent survivor...dear friend... all being sent to my dear sweet Guardian Angel. I love this. Especially the quote about happiness. 40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17

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