Her coldness ... is there precisely because she cared (cares?) for you and the marriage so much. She needs to be cold to you, to emotionally justify what she's doing.

It's hard to stay rock solid when the woman you love is tossing around in a storm. But I hope you keep trying.

It's a long road.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final