"Ok, so here's a question about doing the 180. Am I supposed to still act loving, be rude, or seem uncaring? Should I appear concerned about her situation at all?"
That's not what 180 means. It means that you reverse the bad behaviors that your spouse complained about and that need changing. For example, if you are overweight, then workout. If you constantly talk over your spouse, learn to listen.
You mentioned your overall health wasn't the greatest. What have you been doing to change that?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
