I missed the post about her discovering your thread. You didn't change your name or anything, so are you posting as if she's reading it? We really need to know, b/c it makes a difference if she sees into your toolbox.

All that stuff you were so upset over and came back to add.....was this what "she" brought up, when she said you had not given a fair view of the situation and proceeded to remind you what you had done? If that's true, then you were not really seeing it for yourself, but you had her pointing it out. Is that right? If not, set me straight.

How were things left, after she discovered the forum? How did she discover it?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!