I will pick up where I left off: BIL says his hair is natural. I can tell h is wondering why he is going grey but his brother is not. I have told h that BIL is coloring and not fessing up. In his 20's BIL had dark hair but obviously had hints of other hues. Suddenly his hair is monochromatic black and it's all natural? And yet he has whites on his face. Sure, it's natural; wink, wink, nod, nod.
Point is: h is obsessed with aging. He also told me he can't wait to see how old his brother looks?!?
So as I detach it saves me but when I glance over at h, I just grow concerned at how out of it he is. He is really in his own world over there. Last night I woke up at 11PM to him playing really loud music.
Job - yep, almost time for the "seasonal" tree to make it's debut. H did tell me it can be used all year long! As for an XMAS gift for h? Maybe he is ready for an Atari???
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
