tl;dr nothing much, but no movement towards D either.
nothing big happened today, started the day with W and S at MIL, and I went to work. W texts me later I the day we can eat at her mom's or she can grab some dinner and we eat at home. I said it's a little awkward still with ur family, she said that's fine.
I come home, dinner is ready, we eat, as a family, but before S is done, W goes upstairs to do laundry. she seemed tired or bad mood, or both really.
I had a great time playing with S after dinner, watching peppa pig, then bath and bed. I love that boy.
I then asked W if she wanted to go over finances (we agreed to do that today) but she was too tired. so, I left her in the guest bedroom and went down to watch some shows. she'll probably be asleep soon, and I'll go soon too.
basically, nothing major happened, I just wanted to writs it out. thanks.
I'm really kind of confused. YOU asked HER to go over finances? So pry of the process is detachment. Another part is no relationship talks. But you sought her out to have a relationship talk? Dude. Cmon. In complete honesty, what were you hoping to accomplish? I get that you enjoy contact with her. I'm there too. But let's say she was alert and ready to go and still on edge....she decides to talk to you about finances and decides tomorrow she's pulling $500 to go see a lawyer (since you brought it up and all)....how would yoube feeling? After all, you started the convo!
There is soooo much good info on here. I'm late to it also and have no idea what my chances are. But I do know if I continued down the way I was (which is comparable to how you are acting), my chances were 0. Quit throwing spaghetti at the wall. Either use the process or don't but, it's confusing as hell to you and to her when you go back and forth.
I'm pulling for you bro!
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
