Hi SBJ, these are the issues that they must face to fix themselves. Unfortunately without them living in a situation that life will be life if they take this terrible path, they will be unable to wake up to reality like you see it.

All you can do is continue to keep the focus on you and db. Best wishes

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted