I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

ForeverYoung, I understand the need to keep myself moving (exercise and other stimulating activities), but it is hard to get motivated.

I have a strong group of men that are supporting me and standing beside me thru this...as well as a strong family support. My parents, brothers (2), one of her sisters/brother-in-law, and her father all do not understand or agree with what she is doing. My wife claims that her mother does not want us to divorce, but that she will agree with my wife if that is what makes her happy.

I heard an interesting story a while back about an old married couple and their secret to marriage success...the old man said that "We never fell out of love with the other one at the same time". I get that we change over time, but as a devoted husband, I don't get how someone that you have given 100% to could see you as disposable.