Originally Posted By: Sad_Dad
I guess I still have hope that she'll come around and change her mind.

What does this have to do with slowing down the divorce?

Originally Posted By: Sad_Dad
Also, she was originally going to try to hit me up for maintenance. I wanted my own lawyer to make sure I didn't get railroaded. I still have my kids to care for.

Im not arguing about that. This is a business transaction - you need to be looking out for #1. Nobody else will.