Cherry. Filed, moving, spinning..

[Cherry]

I have thought exactly those thoughts at time V. Partly because a bit of me feels like she needs to be named and shamed. I think that will add some pressure to the situation and make reality hit the pair of them!

The reasons I have towards telling people is just to completely avoid the daily conversations I have people regarding him, you know the usual when people find out your pregnant, they always ask you about what sex of baby your h wants etc. I also feel a little like I will be living a lie less.

I do agree with you regarding the protection of yourself and your rep. I don't want to have my name dragged through the mud because of these two fools! My direct manager knows, I am considering asking her to share with the people I closely work directly with so they can understand what is going on with me!