Yes, I'm am 100% working on me. I had an IC, but not for long, I've been reading up on resolving the porn use, and I've been on track 100% since the BD. I've been working out more, eating better, and trying to get out more.
I'm going to make sure, whatever happens with this M, I'm going to be a better person, and a better H to whomever I might be with in the end.
While I work on me, I obviously want to save my family. Will my W find another OM? Possibly, but she doesn't get out a whole lot, at least not yet, stays at home with our son. I'll definitely keep an eye out for it, but I'm not going to be consumed by it. Her A is over, she suffered some emotional damage (both from just the A being over, and from the backlash from OM and OM's W and friend).
I'm going to continue to try and take it slow, watch her, see what happens, and try and make the right decisions, while I continue to work on bettering myself.
Thanks.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
