Haven't spoken to XW since the day in my mind now known as "d-day" That's fine by me. Although I do wish she would come get her 3 things she wanted from the house... it feels like she's just dragging it out...
I've decided because I can and because I like to travel and spend money on extravagant things that I'm going to look into renting out one of the bedrooms. As a single person I have no need for 3 rooms...
I am meeting with someone today who might be interested.
I already kind of am committed to the idea because like I said I like to travel and buy extravagant things lol. Friend H and I are trying to plan a trip for March for her Spring Break (she's a teacher). I'm thinking Haiti? Dominican Republic? Not sure we decided on somewhere Caribbean but not Mexico...
In a little over a month I'll be leaving to spend a week in Florida with her.
In January I'm considering taking a week to go out to Lake Tahoe to visit my brothers... mostly that's just an excuse to go to Lake Tahoe I could actually not care less about seeing them while I'm there.
honestly, it feels nice to only have to worry about me and what I want to do. I can go and do anything I want. I can buy things that I want and don't have to worry about all the medications and supplies and etc etc etc that came along with XW.
I'm feeling quite a bit better about the whole situation.
W:32 M:26 T:5 yrs M: 3 yr BD: JUN 2016 W Moved out: early JUL 2016 W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016 EA: 06/16? PA: 07/16 Moved in w/ ow: 07/16 D final: 10/16