Interesting POV, about not following sandi's rules now. I'm as positive as I can be the A is over. they're not longer fb friends, my W told me the awful things OM and his W said to her, and it seems OMs W has him underwraps.
I agree she will probably be more depressed then normal for a bit, and I can try and stay around her more, trying to stay cheerful, but not going too deep on anything.
A huge hurdle as u mentioned will be her pride; now that she told people were separating it will be very hard for her to do otherwise, she so frigging stubborn. I'll have my work cut out for me, no doubt.
I'm going to have to think about ur advice, as it's different than the others, but there is some logic to it, especially the 180. right now, she stays in her room watching TV by herself, the same thing she did before the BD, and it's hard to see that it doesn't remind her of the lonely times. I'll try and get her to watch programs with me the next few days.
Thanks for the time and advice.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
