Hey HaWho, great job standing for yourself. Maybe this is what is needed in your case, as the validation seems to be not doing any good. I’m so sorry that you are feeling the pain again from that d@rn letter and that you are in so much stress with everything else that is on your plate right now. You are a great Mom and all I see that you are trying to take of your sons the best you can, considering that you have to deal with your H’s MLC, and essentially another child in your house.

I love the idea of Match.com profile! And you could create one for yourself (under a different name, of course). You could learn a lot about him, LOL. No… I’m just kidding. I think it would too painful.

Landline for a 12 year old!!! Hahaha! This is a good one. This is exactly what I thought too, that it must be related to something he wanted when he was that age.

BTW, what is “Russian send off”? Just curious…


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state