Yes, w was pushing for a d and wanted it fast in January. BD'd me a few days before Christmas and had a mediation set up for just after the first of the year which I got her to postpone. She just wanted out and fast. Then she got offered a job working w/for om in another town and all the sudden she was trying to and threatened to take the kids from me so she could go there. She filed in April and I dealt w/custody this summer and our initial court date was made for September. It got moved back to November 4th.
She hasn't mentioned a word about it and we haven't talked about the r since I got custody. She does keep bringing up getting an apartment. I do think this could be good for her to get away from Mlc friend as things seemed better w/us when she hung out w/her less.
I didn't say anything to her and made an appointment w/my attorney. I figured it would be best to give things another few weeks to decide if I should say anything since we're getting along good. We always did until her Mlc though, we never argued. The thing is I know she's not done cooking but really hate for the d to go through. I just wish we had a little more time.
She came over tonight again and we talked about random things. I asked her if she saw a movie because there was a part that was funny for an inside joke only her and I would get. She asked who I went to the movie with. I told her I went by myself and she gave me a weird look. I asked her about it and she said I just can't see you going alone. The old me never would have but it made me wonder what she was thinking. She was here a little while and told the kids she would stay Friday night. I hope she doesn't stand them up again. Also weird since she works Saturdays. Made me wonder if she had plans and if she will see the kids this weekend but realized I need to worry about myself and not her.
