Out of in house S - On My Own (11)

[rich4j]

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Sorry things are getting nastier and agree with trumpet. I think we have the same stories

The divorce is a piece of paper as many have said on this site.

In terms of the handoffs and being late etc....document things officially to her. I can't recall if you have any legal custody agreement yet in place but if not, get it done. And when she is late or does this type of stuff, send somethign via email saying you are documenting violating our agreement. Put the hammer down...

I have stepped up my distancing myself from my STBX although we only live 2 blocks away with things like this. I push back on things I used to cave in on and it sounds eerily similar to yours. Example is about going to a teacher conference together as my daughters teacher offered separate sessions...I grabbed it. She freaked out and said it was disrespectful....I didn't respond as I also don't want to sit in the same room with a liar.

The family loss won't go away for a long time. I still get bummed out about the family unit but not about her if that makes sense.