Phoebe, while your Ls are writing letters (and charging you for it), WH is out spending the money. I would request them to take court action immediately.

A contempt order is a strong tool that can be enforced. He's not sitting around with the money in a pile waiting to see what may happen. Once it's gone, it's gone. Right now, there may still be funds left and firm and swift action could possibly recover it for you.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17