Just started reading Divorce Busting last night. I've realized a lot of my faults like lack of patience and not only how I listen but how I communicate also. I know its an older book but I read Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. I wish I had read it 20 years ago. It was us to the letter. I've quit being "lazy" Truth is i can't stand to sit still now. I used to watch a couple of hours of TV a night. Now I may watch that a week and its usually just for background noise. I've started reading a lot. I used to hate reading. I've also gotten a lot closer to family and friends, especially my kids. You never know how many people care about you until something like this happens. I have a great support group although some of them are biased. I've gotten closer to God. I know all of this sounds typical for someone in my shoes but I'm taking it all serious. I'm also more concerned with my appeatance. My daughter and I went shopping and she helped me pick out some new pants. I probably haven't been shopping for myself in prob 15 years. My daughter's trying to get me more "in style" which is something I've never been good at.
