h just called for some info from me. we ordered a hot water heater a few days ago and they were supposed to call about installing and they haven't. h was calling for the info so that he can call them and straighten it out. This is EXACTLY the kind of thing that I used to feel completely responsible for handling...too weird but it didn't even occur to me to call them and handle it...guess I knew that h would when the time is right.
I'm not suggesting that I souldn't have done it...but it's absolutely lovely to just not feel like I have to control everything...it's in mighty good hands right now.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.