"The first 2 months or so, my H would tell me how he was grieving the marriage, how much pain he was in. That drove me crazy,"

Why would that drive you crazy? I don't think you understand that that's how he probably really felt. If you trivialized that as you're doing here, it would only push him further away.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER